Salsa men and I
Tall, vaguely creepy man we shall call Francis talks to me on fb chat like every time I’m online with “Hi Sarah, how are you?” or just a “How are you?”. I stopped replying because the conversation never goes anywhere, and he is just (to be frank) odd and boring. So anyway tonight he says
F: How are you?
(I don’t reply…10 mins later)
F: Hi Sarah, how are you?
Me: Hi Francis, yeah I’m good, yourself?
F: Fine
(F is offline…immediatley after I reply)
Like…what?
Also a seperate salsa man keeps giving me compliments (which is a good thing but I am concerned that their may be intent behind them), and then he poked me! Like, this man isn’t young, but he’s pretty fb savvy and I really hope he doesn’t know that it means dtf!
And then! There is a 20-something good dancer who has asked me out (possibly twice but I’m a dunce and probably didn’t detect the first time) but I don’t know if I like him or not, and you would think you would know! I know a date doesn’t make a relationship or anything but I’m afraid that if I say yes to a getting-to-know-you situation and then discover I would rather stay friends that he may feel awkward and not dance with me anymore! Also his English isn’t great and he has a high-pitched voice, and he’s kind of tiny. A sense of humour would make up for these, but there has been minimal signs so far. Also, his salsa partner is a class A bitch.



